An Understanding
Father wasn’t around much when I was growing up. I grew wary
of euphemizing his temporary visits, the birthdays he missed, and all the empty
spaces and silences he left behind. His shadow was closer to me than he ever
was. Its claws clutched me firmly yet subtly, careful to never announce its grip but eagerly inclined to never let go. His haunting absence held me close and warm; it filled in for his arms whose touch I had forgotten long ago. It seems natural and like the air around me, I almost seemed to breathe and bask in it.
For the longest time, the only picture I could recall of my
childhood was of a child, trembling and cloaked in fear and a father, covered with
the stench of bottled liquor which he willingly chose over his only daughter. Daddy
and liquor were bonded by secret matrimony. He tried to break free from it all
his life but never could. And when he finally did, there was nothing much left
of him except ill-health, wasted youth, the fear of being erased from the face of earth without making amends and the awareness that he is slipping away from
all that he had held dear but had taken for granted.
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